Friday, August 24, 2012

Sambutan hari raya di Johor.

  Alhamdulillah... hari ini dah pun hari keenam kita menyambut aidilfitri.Bagi setengah-setengah tempat, sambutan mungkin hanya sehari atau dua, tetapi di tempat aku, biasanya aidilfitri dirai hingga sebulan.Awal-awal raya, saling mengunjungi antara keluarga dan sahabat handai.Minggu ke 2 dan ke 3 diraikan dengan majlis-majlis marhaban yang diadakan berasingan antara lelaki dan perempuan.Kadang-kadang, ada juga kumpulan marhaban di kalangan kanak-kanak sekolah rendah yang dipimpin oleh guru-guru.Sekolah tempat aku bertugas pun biasanya akan mengadakan majlis marhaban dengan berkunjung ke rumah para guru dan kaki tangan.Memang meletihkan tetapi sangat seronok kerana budaya itulah yang menghidupkan lagi suasana aidilfitri dibandingkan dengan hanya membuang masa menonton TV.

   Selain itu, semasa aidilfitri inilah kami, aku dan adik-beradik yang tinggal jauh, dapat berkumpul di rumah ayah.Berborak hingga lewat malam, masak sama-sama, makan sama-sama dan melayan emak dan ayah.Tambah lagi emak memang dah tak berapa sihat, jadi tumpuan memang lebih pada emak.Ayah aku masih sihat tetapi mungkin keletihan semasa aidilfitri hinggakan ayah demam 2,3 hari.Mudah-mudahan hari ni, ayah tambah sihat kerana tetamu masih ada yang berkunjung.  Semasa aidilfitri ini jugalah, aku tumpang seronok melihat kerenah anak-anak buah aku.Tak diam mulut emak ayah larang itu ini tapi dah nama budak-budak....  Sekejap lagi, aku ke rumah emak ayah lagi untuk bantu adik ipar aku di dapur.Menu pilihan hari ni adalah lontong.Bagaimana sambutan aidilfitri di tempat anda?

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Anak buah aku balik beraya dari Shah Alam seronok main tarik upih.
Ni pun bukan di rumah ayah tapi di kampung kelahiran ayah iaitu Kg Teluk Empang, Pengerang.


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Blogger Deno di The Star

   Kepada blogger-blogger tegar, tentu kenal blogger Deno, kan? Khamis, 23 Ogos kisah Deno dengan SLE disiarkan di The Star.Sebagai seorang yang pernah tinggal dengan pesakit SLE, aku boleh gambarkan bagaimana keadaan Deno.Mudah-mudahan, Allah sembuhkan penyakit Deno dan berikan kekuatan padanya untuk menempuh hidup yang mendatang.

Living with lupus

WHEEL POWER
By ANTHONY THANASAYAN


SYSTEMIC Lupus Erythematosus (SLE) is a chronic auto-immune disease in which the immune system attacks the body’s cells and tissues, resulting in inflammation and tissue damage.
Dayang Norhidayah Ngah who hails from Kuala Terengganu knows all too well about SLE. Her nightmare began back in November 1999.
Dayang Norhidayah Ngah takes her battle with lupus in her stride.Dayang Norhidayah Ngah takes her battle with lupus in her stride.
Dayang was 10 when she came down with a fever that refused to go away.
“My parents thought it was nothing unusual and took me to the clinic,” said Dayang.
When Dayang’s feet started to swell, she was sent to the Kuala Terengganu General Hospital. Despite a month of intensive medical tests, Dayang’s condition deteriorated and she was referred to several child specialists in Kuala Lumpur.
“I remember Dec 9, 1999, clearly. It was the day the hospital became my second home,” said Dayang. “It took a full two weeks before my ailment was finally diagnosed. Back then, no one in my hometown had heard of SLE.”
Lupus attacked Dayang’s kidneys, causing inflammation. She had to go through many rounds of treatment to stay alive.
Dayang was put on dialysis. She was given steroids which resulted in her having a “moon face,” a common side-effect.
Lupus also attacked her brain, and Dayang had a violent seizure and ended up in ICU. It was another four months before her condition was brought under control.
Despite missing many lessons in school, Dayang managed to get straight As in the UPSR exams.
“My mum taught me Maths, Science and English when I was admitted to hospital and at home when I was not able to attend classes. My sisters helped, too.”
Today at 23, Dayang takes her battle with SLE in her stride. She shuttles between Kuala Terengganu and Kuala Lumpur for her treatments.
Dayang is on peritoneal dialysis, which is done at home, as her kidneys have been damaged.
Dayang maintains a positive outlook despite not being able to live a normal life and enjoy outdoor activities like her peers.
“I am easily susceptible to illness and infections. If I were exposed to sunlight for 15 minutes, I would develop high fever and break out into rashes. There would be reddish butterfly marks on my skin, especially on the areas where my skin was exposed to the sun.
“Sometimes this makes me feel depressed. But I always remember how fortunate I am to have a very supportive family. My Abah is my rock. He is a positive and strong man. He never gives up hope. Ma is a godsend. Her patience inspires me. My sisters Kak Long, Ngah, Obie and Ana, always cheer me up when I am down.
“Although I live with lupus, I don’t allow it to stop me from pursuing my dream to get a diploma in accounts in Universiti Teknologi Mara, Shah Alam.
“I’ve come to accept reality and I try not to lose hope. I’ve learnt that the best way to deal with SLE is to take my medication conscientiously, and understand the disease and its impact on me, both physically and emotionally. It is also vital to follow the advice of the doctors and learn to stay on top of lupus.
“Despite what I have to go through, I am able to have a good quality of life,” added Dayang.